As the autumn leaves begin to fall and the air turns crisp, there’s one holiday that often gets overshadowed by its more traditional relatives: Friendsgiving. This celebration is all about gathering with friends and creating memories filled with laughter, delicious food, and great drinks. If you haven’t hosted a Friendsgiving before, this is your year to shine! Here’s how to make it an unforgettable experience for everyone involved.
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Why Friendsgiving Deserves More Love
Friendsgiving offers a unique twist on the traditional Thanksgiving. It’s a time to appreciate the family you’ve chosen—your friends. There’s no pressure to perfect Grandma’s pumpkin pie recipe or ensure every detail is just like it was when you were a kid. Instead, Friendsgiving is all about embracing the imperfections, having fun, and celebrating friendship in a cozy, laid-back setting. Here’s how to host the best one ever 🦃:
1 – Creating a Welcoming Atmosphere
First impressions are everything. Transform your space into a warm and inviting haven.
- Think soft lighting with twinkling fairy lights or candles to set a cozy mood.
- Arrange seating in a way that encourages conversation and connection.
- You might spread out a few plush cushions and blankets for a relaxed, informal vibe.
- Encourage guests to bring an item that feels like “home” to them, whether it’s a favorite board game or a beloved dish from childhood.
Bonus Tip! Give people something to eat (and drink) upon arrival.
2 – Planning a Delicious Menu
The heart of any Friendsgiving is the food.
Opt for a potluck-style meal, where each friend brings a dish that’s close to their heart. This not only lightens the hosting load but also introduces everyone to new flavors and traditions.
Friendsgiving food ideas include:
Consider having a mix of classics—like turkey or green bean casserole—and some creative newcomers, like a pumpkin curry or a sweet potato and apple bake.
- Thanksgiving Charcuterie Board
- Smashed Brussels Sprouts
- Blue Cheese and Pear Flatbread
- Sliced-Baked Potatoes
Bonus Tip! Make sure you have enough plates, silverware, and cups.
Drinks to Serve at Your Friendsgiving
Don’t forget about the drinks! A well-chosen selection can elevate your Friendsgiving feast.
- Offer a variety of wines that pair well with the meal. A crisp white like Sauvignon Blanc and a robust red like Pinot Noir are great options.
- Craft a signature cocktail that captures the essence of fall—perhaps a spiced apple cider sangria (recipe below), caramel apple martini, or a maple bourbon smash.
- Remember to have non-alcoholic options as well, such as a sparkling cranberry punch or infused water with slices of orange and cinnamon.
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Apple Cider Sangria Recipe
- 2 c. apple cider
- 1 c. brandy
- 750 mL bottle dry white wine, chilled
- 1 lemon
- 3 apples, thinly sliced
- 12 oz. bottle ginger ale
- Combine the apple cider, brandy, dry white wine, and the juice of 1 lemon in a pitcher. Stir in apple slices.
- Refrigerate for at least 4 hours and up to 1 day. Just before serving, pour in ginger ale. Serve over ice.
3 – Incorporating Fun Activities
Friendsgiving is about more than just eating. Plan some fun activities to keep the energy lively. Start with a gratitude circle where everyone shares something they’re thankful for. Organize a friendly game of charades or host a trivia quiz with questions about your friendships or fun facts about fall.
For those who love creativity, set up a DIY station to decorate mini pumpkins or create personalized place cards. These activities can spark joy and laughter, making the gathering even more memorable.
The Joy of Gathering with Friends
At its core, Friendsgiving is a celebration of friendship. It’s a chance to slow down in the midst of busy lives and enjoy the company of those who matter most to us. Unlike the more formal Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving has a relaxed and joyful vibe. It’s about reveling in each other’s company, sharing stories, and simply enjoying the moment.
So this year, embrace the spirit of Friendsgiving. Gather your friends, serve up some delicious food and drinks, and make memories that you’ll all cherish for years to come. After all, the best holidays are those spent with people who make us feel at home. Cheers to friendship and the joy it brings!
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